Since this is my first post, I feel I should give some background information. My name is Stephanie and my husband of 5 years, Todd and I have a 3 year old little princess named Sophia Elayna. She is the most amazing little person to me. She has so much passion about everything, and when I say everything, I mean everything.
Let me start off by saying something sweet about the little princess before I go into the awful morning we had. She, along with my mother, has such a huge heart. She gets her feelings hurt very easily and she just likes to see people happy. Now, saying that, she does have her mother’s attitude…..Did I say that? I must admit she does. My mother seems to think it’s because when I was pregnant with Sophia, I didn’t have much patience with anyone or anything and therefore, that sunk into my child. So anyway, back to the story of Sophia. Last night, she asked very nicely if she could watch ‘Tangled’ and since she was being such a good girl, I said sure, as long as she got in the bathtub (that’s a whole other story in itself). So now she’s had her bath, she’s in her jammies and her movie previews are playing, advertising ‘Cars 2’. She says, “I don’t like race cars.” I say to her, “oh no?” she continues, “No, I like princesses, flowers and butterflies, yeah those kind of stuff.” Well now I’m chuckling because she is so freakin’ adorable and yet she sounds like my Korean friend David at work “those kind of stuff.” See, she can be a sweet little thing.
And now on to this morning….
So I decided, which it’s probably my own fault, she needed to start wearing some of the nice Gymboree clothes that my mom bought her. Those clothes are expensive! I give her two shirts to pick from. Of course, she doesn’t want to wear either, mind you, these shirts are so adorable, one is a white long sleeve that says ‘CUTIE’ on it and the other is one I got her from The Children’s Place that has a bunny on it and snowflakes. She only wants to wear her Olivia shirt. The child has 3 Olivia (the pig) shirts, and that’s all she seems to want to wear. Don’t get me wrong, I love Olivia, but she needs to wear other clothes. She throws a fit, starts crying, I told her she needed to choose one. “Olivia Shirt!” That is all I can get out of her. So, I told her that her Olivia shirt is dirty, she wore it already. “I wear it again!” I am very frustrated at this point. Skipping over all the screaming, she ends up in her Minnie Mouse shirt from our Disney World trip in November. Yet she is still crying. Although, now that I think about it, that could be because I told her no television tonight. Later after we get downstairs, she is still upset, and I tried to get her to stop crying. Yes my way was threats, like no T.V. at daycare (Ang’s) or no Gymnastics tomorrow. Of course I’m not going to do those things, but what else do I have? Finally, Daddy gets her to stop crying because she wants to go downstairs with him to let the dog (Ellie) outside. Immediately, she stops crying and says “mommy, I need a tissue.” I give her one; she goes with Daddy and Voila, a new child! Now I am just torn because unfortunately, she has her 3 year checkup tonight and has to get shots, do I still not let her watch T.V.? That was my morning, how about yours?